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Dopelganger - cricket crisps - HAH! It seems to me that the key word you use is "respect". That's what it all boils down to.
Lapisrose - I'm going to put myself out on a limb here.... why did you put up with your husband "having you prepare meat for him" when you were a vegetarian if you didn't want to? Any time I touched meat for my husband or for the dogs I did it out my own desire to please (or to own dogs and get their tail wags). No one "had" me do anything I didn't want to and I didn't have him prepare live foods for me when he didn't want to. It sounds like he wasn't respecting your choice to be vegetarian or your abhorrence at handling meat. Now that you are eating live - what exactly is making the difficulty? Is he having you prepare cooked food for him or insisting that you take part? Will you be ok with it if he makes the choice not to go live?
I hope it's ok to ask you these questions. It felt to me like there was a background discontent with your present situation and I ask from a place of wanting to offer support.
greenbunny
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